What Are the Most Important Leadership Skills You Learned as a Kid?

I'm a premature grandpa. At age 49, I've got a couple of grandsons, Deshawn and Danari, who are 15 and 13 and you might as well call them "Generation Why?" because they're at that age when they're full of questions. While we were riding the rollercoaster at the Santa Cruz Boardwalk about a week ago, Danari asked me what were the most important lessons I learned when I was a kid? I was tempted to take a page out of All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten, but a teenager doesn't want to hear vague platitudes like "clean up your own mess" or "say you're sorry when you hurt somebody." No, what Danari wanted to know is which classes had the most profound impact on me as a leader today? Good question.

It's natural to believe that reading, 'riting, and 'rithmatic are the fundamentals for a successful adulthood as communication and logic are hallmarks of great leadership. And, of course, I learned about the value of teamwork on the playground in P.E. and came face-to-face with winning and losing and good sportsmanship, all of which are essential values of competitive capitalism. But, those classes are too obvious as answers to Danari's question. I spent some time deeply pondering what skills I built in the classroom all those years ago that truly serve me in ways I could never have imagined. Ultimately, I came to the conclusion that three particular junior high school classes have the most relevance to my day-to-day leadership skill set today.

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